Is there anything more heartbreaking than feeling ignored or unwanted by your loved one? Well frankly speaking there isn't and it hurts so much when your partner or loved one shows some signs that they are no longer interested in you.
It can opt out from nowhere either way you probably want to fix things and fast.
Of course there are situations where fixing things is not worth it-and you probably have to move on, After all you dont want to be with someone who is not showing interest in you, The last thing that can happen is getting yourself hurt.
That decision is up to you but here are some signs your loved one is loosing interest in you and hopefully how to fix the problem.
1.THEY DONT GIVE YOU THEIR TIME
All of a sudden your loved one is very busy and doesn't give you time to visit,text and even call you,This will surely make you feel unwanted anymore.
SOLUTION:
Chat with your partner and see why they are backing away.
There could be reasons why your loved one is being flaky and it's within your rights to know why he or she is acting that way.
2.THEY SEEM SUPER ANNOYED
Its normal for people who are in a relationship to pick on each other every now and then but when things get mean or rude it can be a sign that your loved one is thinking of leaving you and go for someone else- well you dont want that right?.
SOLUTION:
The next time your loved one pick up a silly fight on you ask them politely what the real problem is.
3.THEY STOPPED CALLING/TEXTING YOU
We all know it takes less than 30seconds to send a text and a minute to call.
It doesn't feel right when your partner isn't picking up his or her phone and even calling you.
SOLUTION:
Be clear about your desire to have more communication. If this person is worth your time they should be willing to send you a text or even calling you often but if they are not well that clearly shows that they may no longer worth your time.
4.THEY TRY TO CHANGE YOU
If your partner cares abour you they would never try to change you in any way infact they would do the opposite.
SOLUTION:
Be clear to your partner and tell them that you love what you are and what you do.
5.THEY NEVER INTRODUCE YOU TO THEIR FRIENDS OR FAMILY
A caring partner will always be proud of you and introduce you to his or her friends and family in a right way but if he or she is not doing that that can cleary show that they are ashamed of you.
SOLUTION:
Talk to them and know why he or she doesn't introduce you to his or her friends and family, who knows maybe there are some bad habits/things you do when you are with his or her friends or family.
6.THEY HAVE STARTED CALLING YOU "FRIEND"
Whats more heartbreaking and more painful than not getting that cool label of girlfriend or boyfriend?.
Being called a friend especially when you have been in a relationship for a while can show that your partner isn't taking things seriously,he or she is taking things slow or even loosing interest in you.
SOLUTION:
Unless you guys have been clear about a "friends with benefit thing" then its time to speak up it is difficult but it can at least save you from wasting your time.
TALK TO ME
Do you feel like your loved one has lost interest in you? What is making you feel that way? Let me know in the comments below.I will be happy to help you♥
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